Thank God!

Thank you Lord, that I don't have to deal with "rules".
Sitting in Relational Comm right now, hearing about unrequited love and different communication scripts, all I can think is, "Thank you God, that this does not apply to me!" I thought this earlier too when some of us gals went and saw He's Just Not That Into You. The terms "would-be lover" and "rejector" are so harsh. I love that I don't need to worry about these stupid games that the world plays in order to find love. I can pray about my future husband and know that when it comes time, he will tell me that he's been praying about marrying me for awhile and I can count on something more than a simple feeling of attraction keeping him with me. I love that I can count on my future husband to not be wishy-washy or shallow with his love. And I trust that I too will be so in love and sure of my feelings that "forever" won't seem intimidating.
And butterflies... I'm looking forward to a lifetime of butterflies. I know different people will say different things about butterflies-- that they're there at first but after awhile when you're comfortable with the person, they disappear-- but I don't believe that. For me personally, that is. I think that's probably very true of a lot of couples, but I strongly believe that God will provide for me someone who will give me a lifetime of butterflies, as well as that comfortable, companionate love.
Do I always remember and hold on to these truths? Haha, uhhhhhmm...not so much. But when I do remember, I am so much happier and content.
So thank you relational comm, for being good for something!